Feelings, fears, moods, anxieties, desires, fantasies surface that I never knew I had or thought I has already dealt with years ago. I react with dismay, guilt, remorse, shame, worry, or more anxiety , partly because I cannot make sense of what is happening, partly because my understanding of maturing does not allow for such erratic and non-productive behavior. I am left on my own to make sense of my experiences. How I interpret my transitions can create unnecessary problems or discover new possibilities. Interpretation makes the difference.